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Monday, November 20, 2006

Baby

I am annoyed with my bf. Two night ago he stayed over at my house because his mom and uncle were sick with something and he didn't want to catch it. So we dragged the matress from my couch into my room (making a huge mess of the whole house by the way) and we both slept in it. The next morning he woke up feeling naseous just like his mom and uncle. Knowing he was sick, he somehow managed to touch almost every blanket I own in my house, and I had to wash them all so that I would not get sick too. Later that day, my mom tells him that she doesn't like that we had the couch-bed in my room and wanted to switch it with an air matress right away. He got really upset about this and impulsively moved the mattress back to the living room and then proceeded to complain about her making him do this, and that he was comfortable where he way, and why couldn't she just wait till later, and how he felt so unwanted and disrespected at my house. I was stuck in the middle. My mom could have waited till he felt better to move the bed because nothing was happening to it at that moment. And boyfriend could have contained his childishness and simply accepted the fact that my mom was allowing him to stay at my house sick at all.

So today is a new day, and we resolved the bed issue. Me and him went to return something at the library and we were talking about how he feels better today but that he refuses to eat anything at all, except drink water and gatorade of course. It's been more than 24 hours since he threw up. I think it's safe to eat something. But here is the issue I am now annoyed with. He wants me to drive him to class tomorrow because he feels weak because he hasn't eaten and doesn't plan to eat tomorrow. Childishness, I say. I tell him to eat something over IM and he tells me that he wants to "give his tummy one more day." Am I dating a 5 year old? He needs to eat, even if he is sick. Even if its just applesauce or mashed potatoes. I don't even want to push the issue further because doing so will cause a fervent tantrum on his part.

I'm really tired of this attitude he has. He is immature and spoiled and sort of self-centered. It's these things that have me questioning whether I want to continue my relationship with him any further. I am not really looking for a casual relationship, which even seems to be more serious than this.

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